Today’s guest is author Kevin Dorvial. In 1999, he began his college education at the University of South Dakota where he also ran for the school’s track team. A year later, he attended Florida Atlantic University and graduated in 2005 with a major in political science and a minor in marketing. Kevin wanted to major in history so he could educate students about their cultures as a teacher, however he knew his prior criminal record would hinder him from getting hired, therefore he left it as an unpursued passion.
Kevin Dorival is a mentor and a role model to
young adults in need of guidance at the
Knights of Pathagoras Mentoring Network in Delray, Florida. He is also the
author of the book, The Courage To
Believe.
GAIL: Welcome, Kevin. Thank you for visiting
today for this interview. What do you mean when you say, “You lost your
innocence before you lost your virginity?”
KEVIN DORVIAL: When
I was about 14 years old my mom was brutally attacked by an ex-boyfriend that
constantly stalked us. I was still a virgin but I felt as if I was a man from
then on. It was time to protect my family by any means. In my book I go into greater detail of the drama that
surrounded that dark night.
GAIL: Your biggest challenge was graduating
from college. Why was it so difficult?
KEVIN DORVIAL : I was in and out of
jail due to the fact that I was on probation. Any infraction with the law or
affiliation with those that are considered outlaws (law breakers) was an automatic
violation of probation. I was literally, in jail during quizzes and tests.
GAIL: What would you like for teens and young
adults to get from your book, "The
Courage To Believe?"
KEVIN DORVIAL: You can alter your
future. I want teens and adults to know that it doesn’t matter what it looks
like or the mistakes that they’ve made in the past. The choice is yours. You
can be in an institution of education or institution of prison. Which one would
you prefer? I loved good food, family, and my loyal friends too much to be
behind those walls. I thank God that I can take the time to write this book in
order to be a testimony to those that are lost.
GAIL: I hear you're big on history. Why
didn’t you major in history?
KEVIN DORVIAL: You heard right, lol. I
love history and it was my favorite subject throughout my schooling. It’s like
wine to me, the older the subject the better but no, I didn’t major in history
in the school system but I constantly read the ancient history of my ancestors
from Africa to Haiti, and even here in America. My fascination of the past
began with the adventures and mysteries of the Egyptians. The internal war
between Cleopatra and her siblings over the power of the throne always seems to
get me on the edge of my seat.
Learning at an
early age that my ancestors were queens and kings made me proud. Teaching kids
their history will make them proud of themselves. Most importantly, find their
identity.
GAIL: You ended up
in jail at the age of 22. What made you get involved in the street life?
KEVIN DORVIAL: I had minor run ins
with the law as a juvenile. For the most part I walked a straight line. At the
age of about 21, life was like a hurricane, lost focus for a moment and
eventually moved out on my own. After constantly getting the short end of the
stick in life I ended up needing a substantial amount of money at that time. My
roommate moved out without a warning, and my job was barely enough to survive
on. I started hanging around the wrong group of friends that broke laws for a
living. They had an idea to make some quick cash. (Quick cash usually always
means quick ticket to jail.) Being in a desperate situation, I went and….can’t
tell you that part. Not yet.
GAIL: Our teens have so many negative
influences in their lives. What would you say is the solution to this epidemic?
KEVIN DORVIAL: Teens are in a age of
technology. They are born into it and the technology is constantly evolving
rapidly. With the iPads, iPhones, Androids, Violent video games, lack of
positive family morals leads to our children being raised by mega bytes and
servers. Now, T.V. is filled with adult reality shows, profanity and nudity,
all of which is distraction.
The only way is to turn away from the technology and do some soul searching in a quiet place. I am a spiritual warrior and believe in putting time aside, of my productive or like most of call it “busy life,” to pray. To meditate. To put things in perspective. Every day I am alive is a blessing. My biggest attribute was the fact that I was able to see myself as someone important - a king and not a pauper. The trick is to speak positive ideas and goals into your life by simply saying the words. If you want to be a millionaire, than say it everyday. If you want to purchase a yacht, then say it. You want to end world hunger, then say it each and every day.
Our teens need to find their identity. They must be able to see that they are royalty, someone of significance. Parents needs to play a bigger part in letting teaching their kids about their history. Let them know who they are or the media and video games will.
The only way is to turn away from the technology and do some soul searching in a quiet place. I am a spiritual warrior and believe in putting time aside, of my productive or like most of call it “busy life,” to pray. To meditate. To put things in perspective. Every day I am alive is a blessing. My biggest attribute was the fact that I was able to see myself as someone important - a king and not a pauper. The trick is to speak positive ideas and goals into your life by simply saying the words. If you want to be a millionaire, than say it everyday. If you want to purchase a yacht, then say it. You want to end world hunger, then say it each and every day.
Our teens need to find their identity. They must be able to see that they are royalty, someone of significance. Parents needs to play a bigger part in letting teaching their kids about their history. Let them know who they are or the media and video games will.
GAIL: You love your country Haiti even though
you’ve never been there. What would you do differently if you ran the country
or if you were the president of Haiti?
KEVIN DORVIAL: The education system
would be the first thing that’ll address. Education would be free for every
child. I will keep the only good christian soldiers that are not corrupted. The
rest of the police, army, and politician will be forced out the country will be
exiled. If there is evidence of their crimes then they’ll be arrested and
brought to trial. I will hire hand picked experts from around the world in
every industry that are committed to see our country prosper.
Those billion dollars of gold, silver,
copper, and natural minerals those foreign companies found in April of this
year of 2012, in Haiti would remain there. The countries that found the
treasure will get a few million as a finder’s fee. It will be very interesting
to see how the current presidency will handle the new assets.
GAIL: How were you able to overcome the traps
of the ghetto that swallowed so many of your family and friends?
KEVIN DORVIAL: It was the grace of
God. I was able to think about my future on a regular basis; therefore
attracted a better tomorrow. I’ve watched people get drowned by their present
situation. My mother made sure that we, my four siblings and me, had our heads
in the books daily, especially, the bible. Always felt like my life had
purpose, an aura of royalty. My community’s tradition of falling under drama
forced me to want more out of life for my own family. Moving forward, and not
wanting to make excuses were two motivators.
My youngest brother is currently serving a
life sentence and a few of my friends are serving three to sixty years in
prison. We are losing our men. Our fathers. Our stones of the family
foundation.
I made many mistakes but now everything I do
has to be a touchdown or first down! No more fumbles in life. No more dropping
the ball.
This is
a link to Kevin Dorvial’s press kit:
I came across a timely article about Haiti in the Star Trib today. An aid group led by Sean Penn has begun demolishing the national palace that was destroyed in Haiti's 2010 powerful earthquake.
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